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Still waiting 3 days to text her? Still holding back interest so you don’t look too eager?

That’s not confidence.
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So….you kept your cool. Stayed composed. Didn’t overshare.
So why did she pull away?

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“I’ve been hurt before.”

Sounds reasonable, right?
But when these phrases come with emotional distance, inconsistent communication, and a fear of real closeness—you’re not just dating a cautious woman.
You’re dating someone unavailable.

Avoidant attachment hides behind logic.
She’s not cold… she’s protecting herself.
But that protection becomes a wall you can’t break through—no matter how patient, grounded, or kind you are.

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You’re not building a relationship.
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Thank you to everyone who’s been part of this journey — whether you’ve supported my business, shared kind words, or just quietly followed along. Your presence here genuinely means a lot.

I feel incredibly lucky to do the work I do — helping good men rediscover themselves, build confidence, and find the loving relationships they truly deserve. It’s powerful, heart-opening work, and I’m grateful every day to walk beside the men who show up for it.

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